The power of your words!

I was never physically abused. But I was often the victim of verbal abuse. That made me into a sensitive girl, who was short-tempered and had low self-esteem. I did not know how to defend myself, and I took their words seriously. I had relatives who always looked down upon my ability and talents. I had friends who assumed I was a weak person, and old-fashioned girl. People often criticized me for my dressing sense, my body image, and my old-school personality. All I did was wear a fake smiling mask, but deep inside those criticisms were hurting me badly . Slowly, I used my plus-points as my strength, and used it to build my confidence. I also had good friends that made me feel worth-it. Well, it took me a while to realize that those who criticized and condemned my ability had their own flaws. No one is perfect. No one should be looked down because they have certain weaknesses. And, never boost your self-esteem by putting others down. After gaining that realization, I began to respect others more, appreciate their strength, and was always careful with the choice of my words. Do remember even a simple joke can hurt someone who is silently going through a tough time. Always think of their situation before giving any remarks. I'm not perfect, sometimes I do say things out of anger and frustration. But after I calm down, I do realize that I've made a huge mistake. So, nowadays I would only talk or reply once I calm down. That way, we would not hurt ourselves and others. If someone is a plus-sized person, do not make fun of them. You may never know how hard they are trying to lose weight. Instead, encourage them and share useful information about exercises, or dietary plan. If someone is weak in their studies, do not call them 'stupid' or 'good for nothing'. Instead teach them and help them. You cannot take back your words or remarks. So, be wise when you talk to someone. Always be considerate when it comes to others. Be loving and see how you can boost someone's self-esteem!

Have a beautiful night my dear readers :)